Men At Work

Nothing to do with this lot.

No, they don't come from a land down under. Rather, they are a support group for fathers of drug addicts that has been meeting in Clondalkin for over 10 years. The group members had attended mixed groups in the past, but had found that most men tended to be quite reticent around their wives. Consequently, they felt an all-male group suited them better.

Recently, they have been touring a short play around the country. Last Thursday, I saw them at the Ballymun Axis Centre. Unfortunately, due to a lack of publicity and good weather, there was a very poor turnout. The play was a vehicle to promote the group and its message. The story follows a father of a drug addict who is unable to deal with his son's addiction. He deals with his problems by turning to alcohol and rowing with his wife and work colleagues. A friend convinces him to attend a meeting to discuss his problems. He is reluctant at first, but goes and soon opens up and finds the support he needs.

The play wasn't particularly well acted, but these guys are only amateurs and wasn't the point. Their performances were heartfelt and they spoke with conviction. The play was followed by a questions-and-answers section with the cast. I'm glad I went, as Men At Work drew attention to a family figure that is often neglected in this situation, as they are often viewed as the provider, strong and unable to express his feelings. A view that is often untrue.